How it works

Answering

Choose `Hard no`, `No`, `Maybe`, `Yes`, or `Very into it`. Questions with different roles put both roles together, such as `Give commands` and `Follow commands`. Small tags show which role score an answer can affect.

You can answer differently for each person or use `Apply to everyone`. Group questions stay separate, because wanting something with several people one at a time does not mean wanting one big group scene.

Matching

A pair match appears when both people choose at least `Maybe`. When roles differ, the answers have to fit together. For example, `Give commands` matches `Follow commands`. Finished people can compare right away while others are still answering.

By default, only matches are shown. You can choose to share all saved answers with everyone, or only with people who also share theirs. The notice above the questions changes to say exactly what your current choice means.

Role themes

`Maybe`, `Yes`, and `Very into it` answers can add to familiar role themes. Giving restraint can add to `Rigger`; receiving it can add to `Rope receiver` or `Submissive`. Splitting one topic into several specific questions does not automatically give it extra weight.

The scores describe this set of answers. They are not a diagnosis or a permanent identity. Session creators can add their own questions too.

Where answers go

`Just my preferences`, `Plan privately by person`, and `Pass this device around` stay in the browser. Invitation sessions are saved on the Lab server for 14 days after the last activity. Treat each invitation link like a password. The creator can add people or delete the whole session; anyone else can delete their own answers and leave.